Thread: What the Babies Would Say
02-08-2013, 11:26 AM #151
There are far too many deadbeat dads in the World. In civilized countries many places attack the wage of the deadbeat dad at source, but only if the mother is successful in making it happen through the courts. Unless the legal system pursues the deadbeats wage via the mother's action, it just does not happen. Probably more than 50% of cases are not pursued, and in some cultures, this would rise to close to close to 90%.
There are millions of deadbeat dads that don't even know they have a child, let alone contribute to their welfare.
02-08-2013, 11:29 AM #152
02-08-2013, 11:43 AM #153
It's rampant in Black America, it's rampant all through the Caribbean, and viral in Africa. It's rampant wherever there is poverty and or a lack of education, and in lower socio-economic groups. I spent 2 years in broader Asia from Pakistan to Indonesia, and it's not as prevalent there as in many parts of the rest of the World. Asians on the whole have a greater sense of community and family than many other places have, so the prevalence is not as high.
Deadbeats occur in whites among the lowest and oddly enough, the highest wage earners. It's the middle class among whites that are more prevalent in taking care of their child when they become somewhat detached.
It more often or not occurs in societies where post secondary education is non-existent.
Filthy rich guys balk at losing a penny. They do follow the courts edict. My Father-In-Law is a rich dentist in Florida. He split the sheets with my Wife's mother when my wife was 6, and I know for a fact he contributed very little to her upbringing because he is a tight-wad.
He acts like the big sugar daddy now that she is an adult, only for show though, and to belittle me. Her Mother still wants desperately to kick his bollocks off.
02-08-2013, 11:51 AM #154
02-08-2013, 11:55 AM #155
That's a good question to ask. I think the real problem is that Man by nature is not monogamous. He truly shows his animal instinct through his behaviour. ESFL - Eat, Sleep, Fornicate, Leave. The the M.O. of the male species and his true animalistic behaviour.
People do not want to believe that deadbeat behaviour is primal, but it most certainly is.
02-08-2013, 12:04 PM #156
so the actions of criminals and losers dictates what is fair?
how many adoptions, births, and abortions are with the consent of the male?Jay Shrewsbury
02-08-2013, 12:07 PM #157
02-08-2013, 12:15 PM #158
Men need to quit meddling in the bodily affairs of women as well. Look at today's America, the failure of the Republican Party electable male, is that he feels the need to make laws in areas that are not of his concern. You have 40 milliion Republican males over the age of 45 trying to tell a woman what she can, or cannot do with her life or her circumstances.
Dark Ages logic.
02-08-2013, 12:18 PM #159
Here's a question/thought.... So talking about unfair equality.... If a women gives a guy aids or some other disease (or vice versa) should they be expected to pay 50% of the medical fees and in the end result have to pay for the life-ending consequences?? If that is what this is all about is equality... isn't that equal?Sorry... "Lower than ebay" makes no sense when 1 card went for $4 and the rest go for $30+
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02-08-2013, 12:22 PM #160