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    Why I Still Collect - Contest entry

    Why I still collect.
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    My son was four years old, my daughter was 6, when we attended our first baseball game as a dad out with his kids. Team USA was playing Canada in Louisville KY. We had a blast. Team USA won and I would like to think it was all because of our chants of "We want a pitcher, not a belly itcher", "Hey batter, batter, batter, sswwiinngg!" and "Hey Ump, clean your glasses"!

    After the game fans swarmed the wall looking for a chance to get an autograph from the next big phenom. My kids and I went down by the third base line near the backstop and we watched arm after arm, loaded with cards, balls, and sharpies begging for someone to sign something, anything!. We didn't have any item for the players to sign so we just watched the ball players making their way past the out stretched hands. I will never forget what happened next.

    Charles Johnson, the catcher, came over to us and said to my son "What's up little dude?" He didn't know what to say except "We won and I saw fireworks". Charles smiled and asked if we had anything we would like for him to sign. All we had were the ticket stubs and no, we didn't have a pen. Without batting an eye he reached over next to us and grabbed a pen from some anonymous hand and signed my son's ticket stub and then my daughter's. Then he handed the pen over to Craig Wilson so he could sign them also. Craig said some kind words about how cute the kids were and he hoped we had a good time. We sure did!

    The next day I went to a local card shop and bought cards with both players in their Team USA uniforms and placed the stubs and cards in protective plastic holders. That started my collecting adventures with my son.

    I had collected baseball cards in the late 60's and early 70's when I was a kid but at that time was really only interested in the gum and how many cards I could clothes pin to my bike frame so that the cards would make a cool noise as I rode around the neighborhood. Yes, players like Joe Morgan and Tom Seaver had a short life expectancy when it was time to ride like the wind.

    Collecting with my son was different. I knew that one day any cards we collected would be his along with the memories that came with them. His first big "special" card was a Michael Jordan insert from '91 Upper Deck baseball (still have the complete set and card). It was nice to spend time with him busting packs, arranging sets and just getting excited about getting any cool rookie card. Plus as a father I learned that it helped him learn his numbers. Doesn't hurt to have a hobby that can be, if only a little, educational.

    Years would pass and our collection grew, stashed away in his closet, on the floor, in the bathroom, under his dresser. We had fun. After he discovered girls our collecting slowed but we still managed to find some time for it. A pack here and there. Still getting excited at pulling that special rookie we needed or common card to finish off a set.

    This past Christmas I gave away almost every sports card, autographed baseball, Pokemon card, except for a few, to great nephews and kids of friends and co-workers. Still have the ticket stub autos, Michael Jordan insert, and a couple of sets we put together. Wanted to give the rest a new purpose and a new home.

    My son's obituary hangs just above the computer so that every time I turn it on and log in it helps me to keep my perspective. He was killed by a drunk driver on the night of his 17th birthday. I quit collecting because it just wasn't important to me and I didn't have my "collecting buddy" to enjoy it with. Hopefully his cards will bring a smile to someone who would look at them, read them, trade them, have fun with them.

    "Perspective" was a word I saw in one of the first posts I read after joining SCF. Hit me like a ton of bricks. Changed my perspective. Got bitten by the collecting bug again a couple of months back but decided to just do it for fun.

    Maybe one day my daughter will bless us with a grandchild and I can give them the new cards I have. Until then I am going to continue to give cards to kids, be it for good grades or just a smile. Perspective! I still get excited about pulling a simple old fashioned rookie card. Not every pack is going to have a gold dusted, diamond filled autograph numbered 1 of 1 and it won't be delivered on a satin pillow resting on the butt of a unicorn. We are going to get a lot of "useless" cards but, give a kid a useless card and that card finds a new purpose.

    My sons death taught me to enjoy the simple things in life. I miss the day when we would sit in the family room, cards all over the floor, furniture, the dog. But if I can still get a little rush out of finding a good card then it takes me back and makes me remember my son, Aaron, our first baseball game, our first special card, his excitement and laugh. That's why I collect now. To remember and to keep my perspective.

    Thank you for allowing me to write about my hobby, and most importantly my son. I think he's proud of his old man and the cards "we" now have. I've had interactions with some very nice people here on the forum. Each trade and post lets me have him back if only for a while and for that I thank you!

    The last words I said to my son were "Never get to big to hug your old man. I love you". I encourage all of you to hug those important to you, tell them you love them, and keep perspective in mind. One day our collections might be gone but the memories we make with others are much more valuable....priceless.

    Chajones (SCF member) thank you for putting the word "perspective" in your sig. Charles Johnson and Craig Wilson thank you for being so nice to my kids and giving me a memory I will take to my grave.

    And to Aaron, "Miss you big guy! I love you!"


    Just doing this for fun! Perspective!
    In memory of my son (my collecting buddy), Aaron
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    papaperk,

    This is beautiful. I'm so sorry for your loss. You're absolutely right about keeping perspective, the memories you and your son shared are so precious and now they'll live forever even beyond your grave because you have shared them with us! Thank you for sharing this beautiful story with us.

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    Thanks for one of the most moving article ever submitted. Published here: http://www.sportscardforum.com/artic...still-collect/

    I can only echo what the above poster said in that I'm also sorry for your loss...Chin up and glad to have you as an SCF member.

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    A very touching article indeed. I believe this coming Monday would be a good day to open at least a few packs to add to the collection.

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    A very touching article indeed. I believe this coming Monday would be a good day to open at least a few packs to add to the collection.

    Thank you for sharing!

    Great idea. We havent busted wax together for some time!! Thanx!

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    Hello Rick,

    I've already told you my thoughts on your article. I've read it several times. William and I opened your package on 4/8 and we celebrated Aaron in a way that I think would satisfy you both. Please know that your story moved me and know that Aaron will live on.

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    Yazfan71 had a great idea. Was planning to bust open a few packs with Aaron his B-Day but the forecast was calling for storms. Decided to bust some wax with him on the Saturday before (6th). Found 3 rack packs 2012 Chrome FB at Walmart. The cards were less than spectacular but was a very nice moment on a warmer than normal spring day at the cemetary. Peaceful place.

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    Rick,

    That is a very touching read. I am so sorry for your loss. I can't even imagine going through what you have.

    I'm happy that you are still around the hobby though. While I didn't know your son, I have to think that's what he would have wanted.

    God bless,
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    Rick...

    That brought tears to my eyes just reading it...I am so sorry for the loss of Aaron to your whole family...

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    I've noticed your signature over the past year of being a member here but didn't know that these words were here until today. A truly touching letter that I thank you for sharing. Judging by the relationship that you describe with your son, I know he would proud of his "Old Man".

    My wife and I lost our first son right after he was born, but we have been blessed with 3 more healthy boys and a daughter. I recently reconciled with my Dad who had been out of my family's life for the past 12 years, he had only met my two oldest sons. He used to take me to card shops when we were near a town big enough to have one. His favorite ball player was Greg Maddux. My boys and I started collecting football cards in December of 2013. This past June I brought my boys to their first real card show in Minneapolis, MN and we picked up one each of Maddux's rookie cards. The look on his face when we gave them to him was unbelievable.

    As you said..."One day our collections might be gone but the memories we make with others are much more valuable....priceless."

    Thank you,

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