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03-26-2010, 02:54 PM #1
need help
ok for about a month now i've had this crush on a girl on my bus. i have never felt this way about a girl before. she makes my heart beat faster and faster and i tap my foot when she's near me. i just facebook'd her and said hi hoping to instigate a conversation. im not sure if she has a boyfriend or not so thats making me nervous im just trying to start a conversation and am nervous.
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03-26-2010, 03:56 PM #2
sounds like you're doing the right thing to start with.
be yourself and let it play out, don't force anything and don't try to be anyone you're not.
Good luck!
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03-26-2010, 04:01 PM #3
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03-26-2010, 04:15 PM #4
so what do you need help with exactly? I'm not exactly a ladies man and always was nervous around girls I liked in high school, but I guess my advice would be to just talk to her. If she rides you bus it seems like you'd have plenty of opportunities to make conversation. Don't over think it.
If she's your facebook friend she obviously knows who you are and are friends to some degree so that a start.
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03-26-2010, 04:17 PM #5
I will say that if you do like her make sure that you do something. Don't sit back and do nothing and regret it. Putting yourself out there is tough, but you'll never know if you don't.
and like the others said, be yourself.
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03-26-2010, 06:51 PM #6
The one thing I wish I understood when I was in school...the worst thing that can happen if you ask a girl out is she'll say no. I know, it's a lot easier said than done and everything in high school seems like such a big deal...but it's really not. Just try to chill out and realize that whether she likes you or she don't, life goes on and it won't be any worse than it is now.
I was bad with girls in high school too and I can't tell you how many times I liked a girl but never did anything about it, only to find out later she liked me too and all I had to do was pull the trigger. You only regret the things you don't do.
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03-26-2010, 10:34 PM #7
Like others have said, go for it...worst that can happen is a no...you'll be happier if you try and get rejected than to never try at all.
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03-27-2010, 01:44 AM #8Assistant General Manager
Best of luck as when you get older you will wish you could change a lot of the situations you wish you would have been more assertive. As others have said what do you have to lose.
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03-27-2010, 02:01 AM #9
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03-27-2010, 09:22 AM #10
I agree with this. I'm also in High School and not the best with the girls. I wish I would have tried with some girls that will never happen. Good luck man!
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