Life

[Chris]

You know like is just messed up. things that happen, why do they happen.

You try to believe there is a god, but why does he take the good people, yet people that are the biggest pricks in the world and are all about themselves can beat cancer and live,

I got some friends whose mother died less than a year ago, and yesterda ythere dad went to get his gal bladder out, and they either cut a main artery or something cuz the drs couldnt get bleeding to stop and he bleed to death. Both of these guys were awesome people who would do anything for anyone, they treated me just like one of there own.

Life is just messed up,

now im worried if i have to have surgery what might happen, will they cut something and i die or be paralized.

:giveup:

[randallcards]

ya some stuff just isnt right thats for sure, its always a chance with surgery that a mistake might hapen or ive know some people that never wake up from going under, its scary thats for sure....

[NiteWolf777]

having almost lost my father a few years ago to a routine hernia operation, i know how ya feel. I generally feel the same about physicans as i do the clergy or politicians...spooky incompetent morons that are more interested in separating me from my money than my wellbeing. the further i stay away from hospitals and doctors, the better i feel

[etmill01]

The sad part of going to the doctors or a hospital is you never know if you are going to get a doctor who is in it for the money or one who actually does care about the patients...

Thanks Ed

[Ripken8fan55]

That`s very true Ed! You never can tell who`s gonna work on you unless you have time to check them out. Hey Chris, you`ve got to go into things like surgery with a positive outlook, don`t dwell on negative thoughts. That can only drive you crazy with worries and whatifs. If you have time to get some background on your doctor maybe talk to some of his patients you can get a better idea of what kind of doctor he is.

My first back surgeon was one of Ronald Reagans personal doctors when he was president so I thought he`d be great. He wasn`t lol. I had to have another surgery 6 months after the first. And 5 more from 2 other doctors. I wish I`d been with the doctor I have now the whole time. But that`s one of the whatifs lol. Think positive thoughts!!

Tom.

[skadsem]

God works in mysterious ways sometimes and we will not know the reason for his actions until our reckoning day when we can ask him ourselves.

As far as Doctors, the only control we have with them is if we get to know what kind of Doctor they are before we go in. You can have the best Dr. in the world but may just slip on occasion. Cant dwell on that though. I am a person who worries alot myself, but have come to believe that with my beliefs, I will be ok no matter what. :)