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    I guess.

    And I'm also guessing that my theoretical question would not work on everyone.

    I'm sure there are some people who would say that they would not cheat on their GF/Wife even if they could get away with it.

    Then again, I must question that response since humans are indeed not perfect and are driven by desire.

    Speaking of cheating I'm not going to call anyone out and ask if they ever cheated on their spouse. You can answer if you like but the question that I am going to ask is would you forgive your spouse if she cheated on you? Or even worse if she cheated and got pregnant by another man?
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    Wow it looks like everyone on here has an adultry free marriage.

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    Wow it looks like everyone on here has an adultry free marriage.

    I do.

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    Wow it looks like everyone on here has an adultry free marriage.

    ...because no one answered your hypothetical question?

    Explain how one means the other.

    (and by the way, I do too)

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    ...because no one answered your hypothetical question?

    Explain how one means the other.

    (and by the way, I do too)

    LOL. I'm not trying to get anyone to snitch on themselves but was looking to see what someone would do if it happened to them. If I found out that my wife was cheating I'm not sure what I would do. My first instinct would be to tell her where to go but then after calming down I would access the situation to see if it is worth saving. No one wants to go through a divorce but what is worse than that is going through a misreable marriage.

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    Am I morally wrong because my ol lady & I have been living together for over 10 years, have 3 children together & don't plan on separating til death makes us? Our state recognizes us as Common-Law husband & wife. I just see the need to be married especially since over 60% of all marriages end in divorce.

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    Am I morally wrong because my ol lady & I have been living together for over 10 years, have 3 children together & don't plan on separating til death makes us? Our state recognizes us as Common-Law husband & wife. I just see the need to be married especially since over 60% of all marriages end in divorce.

    Nope, doesn't make you morally wrong in the slightest.

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    LOL. I'm not trying to get anyone to snitch on themselves but was looking to see what someone would do if it happened to them. If I found out that my wife was cheating I'm not sure what I would do. My first instinct would be to tell her where to go but then after calming down I would access the situation to see if it is worth saving. No one wants to go through a divorce but what is worse than that is going through a misreable marriage.

    That's just it, you can't really answer a question like that as there are a lot of variables. Was a one time thing or ongoing? Is it with a friend, co-worker or just a random dude or dudes?
    It's a case-by-case basis. I can tell you what my initial reaction would be, but I can't say what I would do.

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    Am I morally wrong because my ol lady & I have been living together for over 10 years, have 3 children together & don't plan on separating til death makes us? Our state recognizes us as Common-Law husband & wife. I just see the need to be married especially since over 60% of all marriages end in divorce.

    It depends on your set of morrals. If you don't believe that shaking up is a sin then you are well within your rights to continue on with what you are doing. However if either you or your lady are wanting something more then that is something that you and her will have to sit down and address.

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    Am I morally wrong because my ol lady & I have been living together for over 10 years, have 3 children together & don't plan on separating til death makes us? Our state recognizes us as Common-Law husband & wife. I just see the need to be married especially since over 60% of all marriages end in divorce.

    I have a question. When someone mentions a stat like this one, does it actually have anything to do with marriage.

    I mean, I know you can't get divorced without being married first, but do people who live together but do not sign that piece of paper have a better chance at going the distance?
    Basically I'm asking, and there's really no way to answer, is it that 60% of marriages end in divorce or 60% of couples eventually break up?

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